To shower the child with all the materialistic luxuries is immaterial, to say the least. While the coddling may open the gates to a happy world for the child, it may end up ruining his way of life.A better word for ruining, perhaps.
As the title itself connotes a lot, it is not easy to maintain equilibrium between work and professional life as it seems to be. Parenthood comes along with its own set of responsibilities, which unfortunately many fail to fulfil. Each and every loophole has to be considered with microscopic eye to enable a child perform well in his academics. Unlike few, it is advised to understand the thin line between pampering and fulfilling needs of a child and finally making him feel loved at home. Gifts or luxuries can never substitute love and affection that a child can get from parents. It's good enough to enrol a child in a school of repute, but simultaneously many other things counts upon.
It’s acknowledged that life seems to be perpetually on fast forward mode and becomes nothing short of marathon, still caring for the child in the right way is absolutely not difficult as it certainly sounds. Going by professional recommendations, parents should always have some time for their children, regardless of how busy schedule, you as a guardian is exposed to.
Usually, parents enroll a child in international school of repute, hire a maid and think that they are performing their duties with par excellence. By the time they come back to home, maid makes the child sleep and by the time the child wakes up early morning for school, you cannot afford to compromise with your sleep time and the ultimate time you are left with is weekends, wherein there are ten thousand other words to choose from. Might be a possibility that you do not understand the relevance now, but is likely to take a toll on you as well as the child in the long run.
So it is advised that every morning, make it your habit to spend some quality time with the child. This way you will get to know about the child, which otherwise becomes a matter of conflict in the future. You must stretch a bit, get an extra mile in order to be with the child, see what's happening with his/her studies, get your child ready for school. This way even if you do not get time to be with the child all day long, you don't carry that regret bag with you in any way. Last but certainly not the least, do not skip on parents meeting at school as you should know how your child is performing, is he fair with his/her performance or not. After all, it's about his/her future that cannot be compromised in any way.
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